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The Ultimate Tool For Learning That Fantastic Skill To Help You Meet Members Of The Opposite Sex And

Jan 8, 2009
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The Ultimate Tool For Learning That Fantastic Skill To Help You Meet Members Of The Opposite Sex And Succeed More In Business

Neil Strauss. (Aka ‘Style’) author of “The Game” and “The Rules of The Game” said about Cold
Reading……………

“…. One of the quickest ways to distinguish yourself from other men. Using this technique, you can very quickly enter the minds of strangers and tell them things even their best friends may not know.”

So you’ve seen the other guy get the girl and wondered what she found so interesting in him. Why wasn’t she interested in you? What chat up line did he have that he won’t share with you? You know, chat up lines never work. At best you will come across as cheesy and at worst, hopeless.

But there must be some way of grabbing the attention of the woman that doesn’t come across as cheesy, that doesn’t make you look like a dork, that makes her interested from your first sentence. The answer – there-really is and you have just found the guide to get you past the initial approach.

You see a beautiful woman in a bar or a club or a coffee shop or a supermarket. You think she has noticed you. You might have caught her looking at you. But what to say and how to approach – that’s the problem.

Neil Strauss (aka Style) says in his excellent book ‘The Style Guide’ – “you just need to get great at the first 5 minutes. After that it’s all natural game”. Work on those first 5 minutes and use Cold Reading as your guide.

You see, it’s as simple as that! No cheesy chat up lines required. You don’t need to look like Brad Pitt or George Clooney. You don’t need the best car, loads of money or the finest clothes.
What you need is the first five minutes to look as individual and natural as possible, after that, it’s your personality that takes over.

To climb that initial mountain, that all important first five minutes, to be interesting enough that she wants to spend more time with you, to be different to every other guy who hit on her with cheesy one liners that never work and make them come across as lame and uneducated in comparison to you.
To be the one, to be ahead of the pack, to be the most interesting guy in the bar, the club, the coffee shop, the supermarket, the campus, on the sidewalk or pavement, in the mall or shopping centre, at night, during the day or at any time.

You need armed with the goods. You need armed with a skill that women find irresistible. A skill that women find interesting and immediately desire to know more about.

You need The Cold Reading Guide.

Go to match.com or any other personals site. Read the profiles of what women are looking for in a partner. It’s almost never great looks, great car, cool flat or the finest clothes. What women want is a sense of humour, intelligence, interesting, to be swept off their feet in romance. Give yourself the tools to be fascinating to them.

The good news is you are in the right place to get the skills you need to cover that first initial few minutes and you will have the tools you need to make you seem hugely interesting to your partnership target.

If you have been that frustrated chump that goes home on his own every weekend and wonders if that woman you saw looking at you maybe really did like you. If you have been wondering if you will ever meet someone new and interesting.

If you are always the guy who comes along for the chat, but never to meet her best friend. If that guy is you and you need to change things, then congratulations, because what you have just found will catapult you towards being popular.

Welcome to the answer to your prayers!

The truth is that ‘The Game’ has changed. Now you need extra tools in your box to get the woman of your dreams. You need to be intellectually stimulating to her. She needs to find you interesting and fun and right here right now is where that journey begins.

So what is Cold Reading all about?

Cold Reading is the skill to seemingly know many things about a person you have only just met. It’s a set of techniques used by those in the know, that makes people feel comfortable and trusting of you.

Cold Reading invokes a feeling of déjà vu in those who are the recipients, a feeling that you must have met before because, well, how would you know so much about them? It leaves recipients feeling you have some magical or mystical power – a psychic power perhaps.

There are those charlatans who will abuse the skill to further their own ends whilst possibly creating a dangerous situation for the recipient. Some of them truly believe they have a gift from God to talk to the dead and pass on messages from the other side, but many of them are merely manipulators.

This book will show you Cold Reading as a learnable skill that will boost your social and business standing. It’s not intended as a scientific guide on the subject, though it will quote a number of experiments to prove certain points and expand your knowledge on the subject.

And, you should know that there are just a few secrets that separate the winners from the losers, the guys who go home alone from the guys who go home with whomever they want. Tough to accept, but entirely true....

I know all this, because at 40 my marriage broke up. I had been the best husband I could be. I worked hard, didn’t drink too much, was never unfaithful – but every night I came home to nagging, moaning and negativity.

I was 70 pounds overweight and so stressed my face was covered in blotches. I suffered from sleep apnoea, was permanently fatigued and was a certainty to die of a cardiac before my 50th birthday. I had to get out and finally plucked up the courage to make my move.

It was scary!

I was out there on my own again. Amongst the 30 something women. Unskilled and untalented in the ways of pick up and in a world where it’s so easy to get caught and manipulated by women who were less scrupulous and worldlier than others. I had no game and the first new woman who showed any interest was an ex member of staff who knew I was a big earner.

In one short sentence - I got caught!

She did me for over $10,000 in 4 weeks and I didn’t see it coming. I had to get better at this. I had to learn some game and I could see that once women got to know me, it usually worked out ok – but how could I approach them, what would I say, why would they be interested in a 70 pounds overweight chump?

It was then I discovered Neill Strauss’s book ‘The Game’.

This was a book based on Neil’s real life experience of living among the pick up community. Guys who previously had no game, but wanted to meet women. It was a perfect description of me at that time.

This book and many others I studied over time focussed on the importance of approach and they mentioned things like approach anxiety. In truth, the only way you truly conquer approach anxiety is to get out and talk to women, but how do you do that?

The book and many since have referred to Cold Reading as one of the primary skills to learn in approaching members of the opposite sex and a perfect fillip between the initial approach and that point at which your company has been accepted and the chat continues.

I searched and found everything I could on the subject and practiced and practiced until it became second nature to me. I used it in my business life as well as my personal life and found it worked just as well in attracting people to me and making them finding me interesting very quickly after having met them.

But information was in very short supply and this fantastic skill was being referred to in all the pick up books, but not fulfilled by offerings on the market.

I therefore decided to write what I consider to be the definitive guide to using Cold Reading to boost your social and business standing – and in greater focus – to give you the skill you need to meet and interest members of the opposite sex.

When I became good at these techniques, everything in my life changed for the better. I met better women and I learned more game. I had women inviting me to parties just to meet their friends because they thought I had this psychic skill they wanted all their friends to know about. Life shifted at a 360 degree angle.

I lost most of the weight, got my head in a better place and had more women than I knew what to do with.

And now I am offering you all the information you need to do the same yourself - so you can test-drive my little known underground methods one last time before I pull the plug on the opportunity, this step-by-step blueprint... forever

No one I have come across is teaching these methods in this way. Others have written books on Cold Reading that a prospective psychic might want to read, but then, if you were a prospective psychic – do you need the book to teach you the skills? There has been no book written which covers the subject from the perspective of using it as a skill to meet and pick up members of the opposite sex.

What you will learn in The Cold Reading Guide

	The ethics guide to Cold Reading
	Why does Cold Reading work almost every time
	When fiction becomes fact
	How to get started in Cold Reading
	How personality types affect a Cold Reading
	About Psychics, props and gimmicks
	How to use Cold Reading to pick up women
	How to use Cold Reading to pick up men
	Using socio-economic data in Cold Reading
	Intermediate level
	Expert level
	Frequently asked questions
And more and more in this 30,000 word definitive guide!!

We are so confident that if you buy ‘The Cold Reading Guide’ to help you meet a new partner in life, you will be so successful you will need loads of ideas to keep things romantic between you. So if you are one of the first 1,000 buyers, we would like to send you a full complimentary copy of ‘101 Romantic Ideas’ ($49 value).

101 fantastic ways to keep the
romance alive in your relationship.

If you decide to return ‘The Cold Reading Guide’, you can keep the free gift just for giving it a try.
Tips include…….
On a special occasion, buy your partner eleven real red roses and one artificial red rose. Place the artificial rose in the centre of the bouquet. Attach a card that says: “I will love you until the last rose fades.”

My Guarantee

Try The Cold Reading Guide for 60 days entirely risk free. If you don’t see it as a fantastic tool to help boost your ability to build rapport, meet members of the opposite sex, have your customers like you better than your competitors and boost your social and business standing, simply return it to me at Derryglas@hotmail.com for a full and prompt refund.

The 101 Romantic Ideas eBook is yours to keep anyway.

Here’s how to reserve your copy of The Cold Reading Guide

The Cold Reading Guide is just $49. To order simply click on this button and it will take you to a CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE page. You can then leave your details securely with Clickbank and your book and free gift will be with you immediately we receive your order.
Remember, you have 60 days to try out the book entirely risk free and if it isn’t for you, simply return it to me at for a complete 100% refund.

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